Conventional wisdom tells us that, as a rule, men as opposed to women are reluctant to ask for directions when they are lost. Now why is that? Maybe we don’t like to admit that we’re lost. Maybe we don’t like to admit that we can’t logically figure it out on our own.
But at any rate that seems to be the rule, but there are always exceptions to the rule. One notable exception is when one of the disciples says to Jesus, Lord, teach us to pray. Because in a spiritual this disciple is saying that he is lost and that he can’t logically figure it out on his own. And I find it interesting that the Bible doesn’t tell us which disciple did the asking. Why the Bible doesn’t tell us this is anybody’s guess. But I have a theory. The disciples knew that somebody had to ask but, being typical men, none of them wanted to be the one who did the asking. So they drew straws or cast lots or whatever and finally the disciple who lost out agreed to ask but only on condition of anonymity. Again that’s just my theory.
Jesus responds with 3 major points. We all love slogans and Jesus’ response lends itself to just that. He basically tells us when we pray to: Keep it short, Keep it up, Keep the faith.
Point 1. Keep it short. The first part of Jesus response was to give us the Lord’s Prayer. This is the part that many of us know by heart. Like most of you, I can remember the Lord’s Prayer practically as far back as I can remember. The first impression that the Lord’s Prayer made on me was that it was short. Especially the version found in today’s reading from the gospel of Luke. In fact it was a lot shorter than the prayers that people in the church prayed. Sometimes the Methodist preacher would be in the middle of his big long prayer and he would invite us all to join in with Lord’s Prayer and so we would do that only we wouldn’t say amen at the end. And then he would go on with his prayer and finally say amen. The Methodist preacher’s prayers were plenty long. But the local hometown record was held by one of the deacons at our neighboring Baptist church. As I remember it, it lasted at least 15 minutes: and we were standing up to boot.
Now we had all been taught in Sunday school that Jesus was the Son of God. And so I would have expected Jesus to say this huge awesome prayer even longer than that Baptist deacon’s. And so I was surprised at the brevity of the Lord’s Prayer. That was my first impression of the Lord’s Prayer and one of my earliest impressions of Jesus and they were good impression.
And so, in the Luke account, Jesus tells us to keep it short by way of example. And in the companion scriptural passage in Matthew, he actually tells us this in as many words. Jesus admonishes us against ‘babbling on like pagans’. What’s the point? Jesus asks. For God already knows your needs.
I remember 2 years ago when I first stood here and spoke to the church. I was talking to Tom Carlisle beforehand. I mentioned that my worst nightmare would be to inadvertently say something that goes against the scriptures. And I remember Tom reassured me saying something to the effect of ‘well if you’re going to blaspheme just be brief about it.’ You’ll be judged more on brevity than on content. Good advice indeed! And I like to think that Jesus would say the same thing. So 2 years after the fact, thanks Tom for the good advice. Typically, we look to the teachings of Jesus for spiritual guidance, but sometimes his teachings are real down to earth. Sometimes He just tells us what makes good common sense. I think that’s the case here.
Point 2. Keep it up. Now this is the part which I didn’t learn by heart growing up. I guess maybe it just didn’t get a lot of publicity in my church. But when I got to verse 8 it was like running into a brick wall. And so I read it over and over in several different versions struggling to get a clearer understanding of what verse 8 is saying. In all versions that I read, Jesus tells us that we must pray with persistence. This is an important point. We do need to pray regularly not just when we have a specific need. You don’t want to be like me when I was a freshman in school. Whenever I would visit my parents on the weekend, they knew I had run out of money or clean underwear.
So that’s all fine and good. But it’s the way Jesus explains this that challenged my idea of prayer and how prayer works. He explains it with a parable of a man who needs bread and goes to his friend’s house to ask for help in the middle of the night knocking on the door. The friend doesn’t like being disturbed in the middle of the night. But Jesus says that the friend will help you NOT because he’s your friend but because you persist in asking even to the point of being a nuisance. Here are excerpts from some of the different versions of verse 8 that I checked out on the internet.
… yet because of your impudence[a] he will rise and give you whatever you need..
.. he will get up and give you as much as you need, simply because you are not ashamed to keep on asking….yet because of your persistence he will rise and give you as much as he needs.
… if you keep knocking long enough, he will get up and give you whatever you need because of your shameless persistence.
And this is my favorite. It comes from the version known simply as The Message.
…if you stand your ground, knocking and waking all the neighbors, he’ll finally get up and get you whatever you need.
Now in this parable the man in need of bread symbolizes ourselves and the friend with the bread asleep in his house symbolizes God. And asking the man for help symbolizes the act of prayer. So translating this parable into real life terms Jesus seems to be saying that if we want our prayer to be answered, we should pray with persistence, pray shamelessly, pray boldly, pray with impudence, even stand our ground before God waking the neighbors with our prayer. Is Jesus saying that’s how prayer works? That’s pretty strong stuff especially for someone who was brought up to believe that taking no for an answer is the ‘Christian thing to do’.
So, am I taking Jesus’ parable too literally? Well, yes. And it can be dangerous to take a parable too literally. Just ask the poor soul who cut off his right hand and then used his remaining good hand to gouge out his right eye. I don’t really think that Jesus is telling us that God answers prayer because we’re disturbing the neighbors. Okay, so what is he saying? Well the purpose of a parable is to make a point and Jesus certainly does do that.
Let’s go back again to my days in school. I can remember instances when I wanted to ask this good looking girl for a date but I was insecure about it because I feared rejection. There was an element of that in the disciple’s question. Reading a passage of scripture we don’t know body language or tone of voice, we can only read the words. But I think Jesus sensed that there was a certain insecurity, a certain fear of rejection in the disciple’s question. And we know of other instances in the Bible where Jesus responds to weak faith with powerful encouraging words.
I think Jesus is simply telling us in no uncertain terms to be unafraid to go to God in prayer. This is akin to half time in the locker room. Jesus is trying to coach us, shake us, and even shock us out of our insecurity about prayer. Stand your ground before God and wake the neighbors with your prayer if need be. Maybe you’ve heard the old proverb “Fortune favors the bold.” Mother Teresa advises us to “Cultivate holy boldness for God helps the strong.” This is essentially the same thing that Jesus is telling us about prayer. Here again, Jesus is telling us something that just makes good common sense.
Point 3. Keep the faith. Some Biblical scholars believe that this part of Jesus’ response addresses the real question of the disciple. This disciple is not asking Jesus how to pray. He already knows that. No doubt he has heard Jesus pray many times before. It’s likely that they have all prayed together on occasion. He even makes reference to the fact that John the Baptist has already taught his followers how to pray.
What he’s really asking Jesus is to learn how to believe in prayer. How to have faith that prayer will be answered. And even though he has faith that prayer in general is answered, this disciple, like us, longs for reassurance that his prayers will be answered. It becomes a matter of not only having faith in prayer but also having faith in oneself. Some students of the Bible say that this is the real heart of the disciple’s question. After challenging us with the parable about persistence, Jesus reassures us by saying if your grumpy, sleepy friend will help you in the middle of the night, how much more will God help those who ask for it.
And I think this ties back in with why Jesus made such a big deal out of being persistent. Prayer, and more importantly, faith in prayer is like training for a marathon. We don’t just go out there and run 26 miles. We have to train with persistence sometimes over a very long period of time. Then when the race day comes, we can have faith that we will be able to finish the race. And so it is with prayer.
We pray with persistence, maybe for a long period of time. Then when the day comes that we have great need of prayer, we can have faith that our prayers will be answered. The answer may not be quick in coming more is the need for persistence, and the answer may not be yes. It’s been said that all prayers are answered, sometimes the answer is no. This is more than just a clever turn of phrase because it’s also been said that God’s blessings can come from a No just as well as from a Yes.
Now that’s so easy for me to say and hard for us to understand, and it’s really hard to accept. But Jesus understood and accepted that. In Gethsemane, the night before the crucifixion, Jesus prayed for his life and the answer was no. But where might we be if the answer had been yes, where would we be if God had spared Jesus the ordeal of crucifixion. Jesus physical nature wanted to live. But in his spirit he knew that the answer had to be no. And He acknowledged this when he spoke those 4 famous little words. “Thy will be done. “And where have we heard that before? Thy will be done.
As short as the Lord’s Prayer is already, theologians say that it could be reduced to just those 4 words. Jesus taught us to pray those words and when his day of reckoning came he PRACTICED WHAT HE PREACHED. Now we can never hope to pray as Jesus did but with persistence and a little faith, we will know in our heart, these words that we know by heart.
Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.